忐忑不安的心,让我继续撒谎，本来不想把自己内心的话写在部咯格或FB上，只是想偶尔发泄牢骚。请原谅我，又一次撒了谎！！！
我不得不在孩子面前撒谎，因为现在是考试季节，孩子们的学习任务繁重，大脑都处在高度紧张状态，每晚温习到早上1-2点。我真的不得不撒谎，因为，深怕会影响他们的心情。所以，我想明天，后天，我还会撒谎。。。。。。
这是否是个善意的谎言，我不知道，我只希望一切平安度过。。。时间不早了，我得赶去医院探望孩子最亲的人，这就是我所说的谎言。。。。。。
Friday, October 7, 2011
Friday, September 16, 2011
有故事的人。。。。。。
很喜悦的9月，对我来说而已，好烂咯，哈哈哈。。。
找到我的VIP的朋友，超开心，因为她是我失散20年的朋友。。。
这几天自己会莫名其妙的兴奋，紧张，神经兮兮的，哈哈哈。。。
有时候会6早7早起身，会上网找找MSN 或 Facebook 和她上网聊天，像中毒一样。。。
虽然在web cam chat chat而已，但在这个小小的空间，已挤满了我们的欢笑，真是的。。。
如果你们半夜一两点看到我在网上的话，请假装看不到！
因为美国和这里的时差15个小时！我得调整自己的时间，要把20年前的事，慢慢地聊，真得chat疯了。。。
这个7月他们一家从美国来探望我们了，很可惜，我错过了，很遗憾。。。
其实，我很庆幸还有她，还记得我这个超烂的朋友，感激+感动到。。。
所以，我学会，会好好珍惜所拥有的人，事和物，才能对得起自己！就让我偶尔emo emo 就好。。。
VIP是我最要好的朋友，
以后的日子希望他们会更美好，
继续加油，我真心祝福他们！
永远健康快乐幸福＝）
希望明年再相见，很期待。。。
P/S:一个人是不是真的在乎你，可以从对方的回复看出来 - 是用心地回答，随便敷衍你，还是完全不理睬你。
Wednesday, August 31, 2011
喝咖啡去了。。。
咖啡永远都是我的精神良伴，每天早晨一杯咖啡，是美好的开始。接下来的那一杯，就和好友好好的享受咖啡和聊天。也许老公是海南人，在他的影响下每天都得喝上至少两杯打底。我喜欢咖啡的香濃,是增添生活的滋味。。。
今天一早安排好要和Tiffany去喝咖啡又聊天，我们聊什么？我们聊孩子，聊家人，聊旅行，聊未来，聊别人，聊某某人。。。最后，我们聊8卦咯！！！
和她聊天，真的发现有很多共同的看法与想法。
和她聊天，真的很开心很享受。
平时当孩子们都上学去，老公也上班去的时候，
我们2个女人可厉害咯可以畅谈4-5个小时,4-5个小时可以做些什么呢？又谈些什么呢？
有一次4个小时，换了3个地方,
包括 breakfast,lunch and tea time了！！！
我们2个是咖啡精，点了一样的咖啡，过后就比例巴拉， 比例巴拉的讲个不停。时间差不多了，要卦约了
下次有聚会叫“埋”你们啊~~
今天一早安排好要和Tiffany去喝咖啡又聊天，我们聊什么？我们聊孩子，聊家人，聊旅行，聊未来，聊别人，聊某某人。。。最后，我们聊8卦咯！！！
和她聊天，真的发现有很多共同的看法与想法。
和她聊天，真的很开心很享受。
平时当孩子们都上学去，老公也上班去的时候，
我们2个女人可厉害咯可以畅谈4-5个小时,4-5个小时可以做些什么呢？又谈些什么呢？
有一次4个小时，换了3个地方,
包括 breakfast,lunch and tea time了！！！
我们2个是咖啡精，点了一样的咖啡，过后就比例巴拉， 比例巴拉的讲个不停。时间差不多了，要卦约了
下次有聚会叫“埋”你们啊~~
Sunday, August 28, 2011
黄黄的，蓝蓝的天空。。。
我很羡慕鸟儿，因为不管早上或傍晚，都能看见它们在柱子上歇息。。。
我们是否也一样，偶尔累了，也可以像鸟儿那样找个地方歇一歇，然后再出发？ 我想这样的生活应该会很充实，很实在。。。
Friday, July 22, 2011
Tuesday, April 19, 2011
Notes for ...
Before you can win, you have to believe you are worthy. By Mike Ditka
Winning isn't everything, but more importantly, it is that experience matters.
You were born to win, but to be a winner you must plan to win, prepare to win and expect to win. by Zig Ziglar
You cannot run away from your weakness; you must some time fight it out or perish. by Robert Louis Stevenson
If you don't like the road you're walking start paving another one. by Dolly Parton
Never let life's hardships disturb you; no one can avoid problems, not even saints or sages. By Michiren Daishonen
Never be afraid to try something new. Remember , amateurs built the ark.Professional built the Titanic. By Anon
To reach a port, we must sail,sail , not tie at anchor . Sail, not drift By Franklin Roosevelt
I love those who can smile in trouble, who can gather strength from distress, and grow brave by reflection. by Leonardo Da Vinci
You learn something every day if you pay attention by Ray LeBlond
If your actions inspire others to dream more, learn more and become more, you are a leader by Jihn Quincy Adams
Trying to get everyone to like you is a sign of mediocrity(accomplishment) by Colin Powell
A true friend is someone who thinks that you are a good egg even though he knows that you are slightly cracked. By bernard meltzer
Sometime your source of joy is your smile and sometime your joy is your source of smile by Thich nanth
Sometime True friends stab you in the front. by Oscar Wilde
There is an eagle in me that wants to soar and there is a hippopotamus in me that wants to wallow in the mud by Carl Sandburg.
Blessed are those who give without remembering, and blessed are those who take without forgetting. by Bernard Meltzer.
The only way of finding the limits of the possible is by going beyong them into the impossible. by Arthur C. Clarke
The real leader has no need to lead. He is content to point the way. by Henry Miller
You can't dream yourself into a character: you must hammer and forge yourself into one. By Henry D Thoreau
If wrinkles must be written upon our brows let them not be written upon the heart.
Winning isn't everything, but more importantly, it is that experience matters.
You were born to win, but to be a winner you must plan to win, prepare to win and expect to win. by Zig Ziglar
You cannot run away from your weakness; you must some time fight it out or perish. by Robert Louis Stevenson
If you don't like the road you're walking start paving another one. by Dolly Parton
Never let life's hardships disturb you; no one can avoid problems, not even saints or sages. By Michiren Daishonen
Never be afraid to try something new. Remember , amateurs built the ark.Professional built the Titanic. By Anon
To reach a port, we must sail,sail , not tie at anchor . Sail, not drift By Franklin Roosevelt
I love those who can smile in trouble, who can gather strength from distress, and grow brave by reflection. by Leonardo Da Vinci
You learn something every day if you pay attention by Ray LeBlond
If your actions inspire others to dream more, learn more and become more, you are a leader by Jihn Quincy Adams
Trying to get everyone to like you is a sign of mediocrity(accomplishment) by Colin Powell
A true friend is someone who thinks that you are a good egg even though he knows that you are slightly cracked. By bernard meltzer
Sometime your source of joy is your smile and sometime your joy is your source of smile by Thich nanth
Sometime True friends stab you in the front. by Oscar Wilde
There is an eagle in me that wants to soar and there is a hippopotamus in me that wants to wallow in the mud by Carl Sandburg.
Blessed are those who give without remembering, and blessed are those who take without forgetting. by Bernard Meltzer.
The only way of finding the limits of the possible is by going beyong them into the impossible. by Arthur C. Clarke
The real leader has no need to lead. He is content to point the way. by Henry Miller
You can't dream yourself into a character: you must hammer and forge yourself into one. By Henry D Thoreau
If wrinkles must be written upon our brows let them not be written upon the heart.
Monday, April 4, 2011
Durian Muffin
I have been wanting to bake durian muffins for such a long time. Today,I finally managed to find some time to get the main ingredient for my muffins...DURIAN!
The durian season seems to be around already, I bought durians in ready-packed form, 3 packets for $10. They were D24 type of durian, not bad also, the flesh were in bright yellow and tasted very sweet.
Durian muffin recipe:
Ingredients:
300g all-purpose flour
100g sugar
2 teaspoons double baking powder
1/2 teaspoon salt
75g butter, melted
1 egg, lightly beaten
3/4 cup milk
500g durian pulp
Method:
1.Preheat oven to 190 degC.
2.Melt butter over low heat in a saucepan. Set aside.
3.Separate durian pulp from seeds, mash slightly with a fork and set aside.
4.Add egg to the melted butter. Stir till combine. Add in milk and half of the durian pulp. Stir to combine.
5.In another bowl, combine the flour, sugar, double baking powder and salt. Use a spatula or whisk to mix the dry ingredients completely .
6.Add the wet ingredients to the dry ingredients and stir only until the ingredients are just combined. The mixture will appear very lumpy. Do not over mix the batter otherwise the muffins will become tough.
7.Spoon batter into the muffin cups, filling half full. Add 1 teaspoon of durian pulp to each, top with remaining batter. Fill up with the remaining batter to about two thirds full.
8.Bake for 25 to 30 minutes or until a tester inserted in the center of a muffin comes out clean.
英语怎么说？
那天去扫墓后，老二正在用她的GalaxyS来sms. 忽然，她问我：“Mummy,扫墓，英语怎么说？“ 糟糕了，在我的字典里应该是 Qingming Festival or Tomb-Sweeping Festival？听起来好像怪怪的。我便对她说:"你写华文的清明节就好。”LOL
明天四月五日是清明节，是一个纪念祖先的节日。 主要的纪念仪式是扫墓和拔野草吧！扫墓活动通常是在清明节的前十天或后十天，有些人扫墓活动长达一个月呢。。。。。。
还记得小时的清明节，母亲，婆婆和叔叔都会带着我们去Senawang那儿祭拜公公。从没想过会有那么一天，来到星加坡的地方也要祭拜老公的父亲。只是送上鲜花以基督教的方式祭拜，就那么简单。
还记得清明的诗歌吗？ 清明时节雨纷纷,路上行人欲断魂。借问酒家何处有?牧童遥指杏花村。
如果有机会的活，我想去祭拜我的婆婆。。。。。。
明天四月五日是清明节，是一个纪念祖先的节日。 主要的纪念仪式是扫墓和拔野草吧！扫墓活动通常是在清明节的前十天或后十天，有些人扫墓活动长达一个月呢。。。。。。
还记得小时的清明节，母亲，婆婆和叔叔都会带着我们去Senawang那儿祭拜公公。从没想过会有那么一天，来到星加坡的地方也要祭拜老公的父亲。只是送上鲜花以基督教的方式祭拜，就那么简单。
还记得清明的诗歌吗？ 清明时节雨纷纷,路上行人欲断魂。借问酒家何处有?牧童遥指杏花村。
如果有机会的活，我想去祭拜我的婆婆。。。。。。
Friday, April 1, 2011
What's pranks have u played on others?!
OMG! Today is April Fool Day. I am so bored, until I am reading my blog now, LOL!!! Let's talk about TEA today...
If you re cold, TEA will warm you. If you're heated, it will cool you. If you 're depressed, it will cheer you. If you're excited, it will calm you. by Gladstone. But, I prefer COFFEE especially Latte...
If you haven't been into coffee delights, then you are up to learning a lot of good stuff.
Let's me re-write the proverb,
If you re cold, COFFEE will warm you. If you 're depressed, Coffee will cheer you. If you're excited, Coffee will calm you. by ME.
I have 12 of the lattes from my Cafe to be serve you all here. Only for today!
So Enjoy! The cafe latte will be very hot, so drink carefully.
If you re cold, TEA will warm you. If you're heated, it will cool you. If you 're depressed, it will cheer you. If you're excited, it will calm you. by Gladstone. But, I prefer COFFEE especially Latte...
If you haven't been into coffee delights, then you are up to learning a lot of good stuff.
Let's me re-write the proverb,
If you re cold, COFFEE will warm you. If you 're depressed, Coffee will cheer you. If you're excited, Coffee will calm you. by ME.
I have 12 of the lattes from my Cafe to be serve you all here. Only for today!
So Enjoy! The cafe latte will be very hot, so drink carefully.
Tuesday, March 22, 2011
Never Ending....
A break up is like a broken mirror. It is better to leave it broken than hurt yourself to fix it .
I laugh, I love, I try, I hurt, I need, I fear, I cry. I know you do the same things too, So we're really not that different. By colin raye
Love looks through a telescope;envy through a microscope. by Josh Billings
Life is like a hot bath. It feels good while you're in it, but the longer you stay in, the more wrinkled you get.
Nothing can bring you happiness but yourself .by Emerson
We worry about what a child will become tomorrow, yet forget that he is someone today. by Stada Tauscher
I laugh, I love, I try, I hurt, I need, I fear, I cry. I know you do the same things too, So we're really not that different. By colin raye
Love looks through a telescope;envy through a microscope. by Josh Billings
Life is like a hot bath. It feels good while you're in it, but the longer you stay in, the more wrinkled you get.
Nothing can bring you happiness but yourself .by Emerson
We worry about what a child will become tomorrow, yet forget that he is someone today. by Stada Tauscher
The brain is like a muscle, when it is in use we feel very good. Understanding is joyous!!!! by carl sagan
Thousands of candle can be lit from a single candle and the life of the candle will not be shortened.
Never limit yourself because of others' limited imagination, never limit others because of your own limited imagination. by Mae Jemison Astronaut
Courage is the discovery that you may not win and trying when you know you can lose. by Tom Krause
The test of courage comes when we are in the minority. The test of tolerance comes when we are in the majority . By ralph w. Sockman
Girl wants a lot of things from one guy, conversely, guys want one thing from a lot of girls...hahaha
One cannot and must not try to erase the past merely because it does not fit the present. by Golda Meir
Patience serves as a protection against wrong, as clothes do against cold.By Leonardo Da Vinci
Borrow money from a pessimist - they don't expect it back!
But some friends borrowed money from me and I really needed it back, I m not a pessimist!
Thursday, March 17, 2011
Sunday, March 13, 2011
这次是鸡闯的祸！！！
三水鸡
天啊......
已经不只吃一次了,不说你不知哦......两个星期里吃了第四次,好恐怖,不肥才怪呢!!!!
我啊......
昨天，我又再吃这道菜. 终于可以和老公孩子们一起享受这道所谓的白斩鸡吧! 其实我不太喜欢白斩鸡,但是三盅两件的<三水姜茸鸡>,就是我的最爱,很赞!!!
白鸡鲜嫩,不肥腻,把鸡肉和姜茸包在生菜里,吃了一块又一块,好好吃! 赞赞赞!!!
在此我必须很慎重的声明，从今天起我要停止，不要再吃三水鸡了:~ 嗚嗚嗚。
（因为我不想讓別人說我又变胖了）
还有还有,就是没完没了的我也要强力推荐,不再是鸡噢 。。。
Dian Xiao Er (店小二的 ~~~ 当归烤鸭),更赞!!!
明确声明:
这里没有冒犯任何一方,因为它们就是同属一个餐饮集团的.
下回再附上照片.
Saturday, March 12, 2011
Wednesday, March 9, 2011
没有cream的蛋糕
今天不想煮饭，想烘蛋糕吃。我一口气烘了两个蛋糕。有咸的，有甜的。
1）肉丝蛋糕卷
嘻嘻，这可是我的杰作，自己亲手做的。有mayonnaise和肉丝，好吃！：） 好像吃寿司。。。。。。
2)龙珠果蛋糕
前两天又做多一次。
新口味，里面可是粉红色。味道不够香，和普通的鸡蛋糕一样。 ：（
3）班兰chiffon蛋糕
哈哈，还是用回同一个模型。刚刚出炉，这是我第一次烘chiffon蛋糕，不够松软也不比Bangawan Solo来的好吃。 ：（
你们要不要来一块试一试看看？有钱都买不到的蛋糕。。。。。。嘻嘻嘻
1）肉丝蛋糕卷
嘻嘻，这可是我的杰作，自己亲手做的。有mayonnaise和肉丝，好吃！：） 好像吃寿司。。。。。。
2)龙珠果蛋糕
前两天又做多一次。
新口味，里面可是粉红色。味道不够香，和普通的鸡蛋糕一样。 ：（
3）班兰chiffon蛋糕
哈哈，还是用回同一个模型。刚刚出炉，这是我第一次烘chiffon蛋糕，不够松软也不比Bangawan Solo来的好吃。 ：（
你们要不要来一块试一试看看？有钱都买不到的蛋糕。。。。。。嘻嘻嘻
Monday, March 7, 2011
Canon,还是Nikon了?
我们的新年真的没有什么照片, 因为没有相机的我就没有什么心情. 目前用手机和video camera或sanyo的超...慢的傻瓜相机拍照.
事隔了一年半, 我的Lumix DMC 应该是永久性的而不是暂时的RIP了. 我老早就把它放在抽屉里,看看什么时候的它会突然的醒过来! 完全我预料得到! 看情况应该可以宣告它的死亡时间是早上9点零5分,日期2011年3月7日.
现在就在考虑该买新相机的时候了. 在想要不要直接买DSLR呢?!(digital single-lens reflex cameras) 反正价钱都不算便宜! 我得好好考虑它的方便性还是长远性啊?! 先来比较它的好与坏吧!
这台Nikon D7000太贵了$2299, 买不起, 不过, 真的还蛮Cool 的....
我倒考虑考虑Nikon D3100 $999或D90$1688
不妨给点意见及提示吧!!!
URGENT: 我要快快去买新相机!!!!因为老公的生日要到来了......
事隔了一年半, 我的Lumix DMC 应该是永久性的而不是暂时的RIP了. 我老早就把它放在抽屉里,看看什么时候的它会突然的醒过来! 完全我预料得到! 看情况应该可以宣告它的死亡时间是早上9点零5分,日期2011年3月7日.
现在就在考虑该买新相机的时候了. 在想要不要直接买DSLR呢?!(digital single-lens reflex cameras) 反正价钱都不算便宜! 我得好好考虑它的方便性还是长远性啊?! 先来比较它的好与坏吧!
好处:时下最流行的, 不是傻瓜相机, 摄影可是老公的嗜好...
坏处:不方便携带,的确价钱不便宜, 不属于完全自己的相机...
希望还有更多精彩，有待发现。
这台Nikon D7000太贵了$2299, 买不起, 不过, 真的还蛮Cool 的....
我倒考虑考虑Nikon D3100 $999或D90$1688
不妨给点意见及提示吧!!!
URGENT: 我要快快去买新相机!!!!因为老公的生日要到来了......
Thursday, March 3, 2011
幾米的书籍
我喜欢幾米。。。。。。幾米,是台湾著名绘画家。他的所谓不完美但可是超可爱的作品。里头每一页都有幾米的漫画和图片。适合一家大小的书籍，我会继续支持幾米。。。。。。
No。1 《我不是完美小孩》
大家好，我叫「郝完美」，现在读小学三年级。这个名字是爸妈为我取的。
他们说，我小时候，不管正面看背面看，醒着睡着，或笑或哭，我看起来都好完美。
可是，随着我慢慢长大，事情就变了……
爸妈的要求愈来愈多，学校的要求愈来愈严。
我觉得很累，真想大叫：我不是完美小孩啦！
我想知道，世界上有多少人跟我一样觉得自己不完美。
所以我鼓起勇气站上台，讲出我对于这件事的想法。
所有放弃追求完美的小孩和大人，欢迎来听讲。
No。2 《世界别为我担心》
我从小就是个很会担心的小孩。
消防车往家的方向奔去，我就担心失火的是我家。
老师说考试有人不及格，我就担心她说的一定是我。
朋友约会迟到，我就担心他是不是出车祸了。
听了鬼故事，就担心恶鬼上身。
我担心的事情真多，但发现真的值得担心的事并不多。
倒是我没担过心的事，却突如其来地让人担心不已。
人生到底该多担心还是不必担心，真是让人很担心。
有些人老是担心，有些人从不担心。
有些担心永恆而遥远，有些担心却是短暂而迫在眉睫。
担心就像感冒，一个人担心后，会有更多人紧跟着担心。
好担心跟别担心就像一体两面，一会担心一会又不担心。
关于这个世界你担心什麽？
Tuesday, March 1, 2011
We are happy family
Dear Jacin, these are nice for you!
My love I give unto you, it's a love that the world cannot give. It's a love that the world cannot understand...
Write bad things that are done to you in sand, but write good things that happen to you on a piece of marble.
Life is like an onion; you peel it off one layer at a time, and sometimes you weep. By Card Sandburg
Unless you change who you are , you will always have what you got.
When I let go of what I am, I become what I might be. By Lao tse
Love me when I least deserve it, because that's when I really need it.
It is not only flesh and blood but the heart which makes us mother and daughter. by Johann Schiller
If passion drives you, let reason hold the reins. by Benjamin Franklin
A hippie is someone who looks like tarzan, walks like Jane and smells like cheetah. by ronald reagan
Keep your face to the sunshine and you will not see the shadows. Helen Keller
Wherever you go, no matter what the weather, always bring your own sunshine by Anthony J D'Angelo
All people smiles with same language...
A hug and Kiss can heal the broken heart!!!! cool!
Anger is a condition in which the tongue works faster than the mind!
One cannot refuse to eat just because there is a chance of being choked
If you are still talking about what you did yesterday, you haven't done much today...
Children really brighten up a household- they never turn the lights off by Ralp Bus
Happiness is enhance by others but does not depend upon others!!!!
A hug is a great gift... One size fits all... It can be given for any occassion and it's easy to exchange
Whatever burdens you are carrying now, let them down, relax, pick them up later, after you have rested...
Everyday may not be good, but there's something good in every day...
A half-baked idea is okay as long as it's in the oven....
Dont aim for success if you want it; just do what you love and believe in, and it will come naturally.. by David Frost
Great minds discuss ideas. Average minds discuss events, small minds discuss people.
Dreams are like stars.... you may never touch them, but if you follow them they will lead you to your destiny...
Success is getting what you want. Happiness is wanting what you get.by Dale Carnegie
Bill Gates is very rich man today... and do you want to know why? the answer is one word: VERSIONS. By Dave Barry..
Falling down is not a defeat, defeat is when you refuse to get up.
Dont judge each day by the harvest you reap but by the seeds you plant. by Robert Louis Stevenson
Women are wiser than men because they know less and understand more... by James thurber
One begins cutting his/her wisdom teeth the first time when he/she bites off more than he can chew. by herb caen
Life is a shipwreck but we must not forget to sing in the lifeboats by voltaire
The most important thing a father can do for his children is to love their mother
Your children need your presence more than your presents. by Jesse Jackson...
Recession is when Neighbour loses his Job. Depression is when you lose yours.. by Ronald Reagan...
Learn all you can from the mistakes of others. You won't have time to make them all yourself. by Alfred Sheinwold
Always be a first-rate version of yourself, instead of a second rate version of somebody else. by Judy Garland
Being happy doesn't mean that everything is perfect. It means that you've decided to look beyond the imperfections. by Anon
True love is like a pair of socks: you gotta have two and they've gotta match. by Anon
Home is not where you live, but where they understand you by Christian Morganstern
A real man doesn't love a million girls. He loves ONE girl in a million ways.
Help a man when he is trouble & he'll remember u again when he is in trouble again.
An athlete cannot run with money in his pockets. He must run with HOPE in his heart and dreams in his head... emil Zatopeck
You grow up the day you have the first real laugh ... at yourself... by Ethel Barrymore
Life is a Game.... sometimes you win and sometimes you lose. But no matter what your Cards in life are, whether Club, Spade or Diamond, always REMEMBER... never play without HEART !!!!
Your joys, triumphs, successes & happiness are not mine, yet I can share in your laughter,Your decision in life are not mine to make, nor to judge, I can only support you, encourage, help you when you ask...
Please enjoy my sharings this morning...
Thursday, February 24, 2011
A proverb a day
Dear all friends .... Laugh as much as you breathe and love as long as you live...
Here are some proverbs I recommend you, please check out! Trust me, this is not a Bible lesson!!!
01..Life is the art of drawing without an eraser.by John Gardener
02.If God wanted us to bend over he'd put diamonds on the floor. by Joan Rivers
03.Life must be understood backwards; but it must be lived forward. by Soren kierkegaard
04.The hardest thing in life is to know which bridge to cross and which to burn. by david russell
05.All you need is love, but a little chocolate now and then doesn't hurt. by charles M. Schultz
06.A man who wants to lead the orchestra must turn his back on the crowd
07.Genius may have it's limitation , but stupidity is not thus handicapped. by Elbert Hubbard
08.Be grateful for what you have, while in pursuit of what you want. By jim Rohn
09.It is hard to fail, but it is worse never to have tried to succeed. by Theodore Roosevelt
10.Anger is a wind which blows out the lamp of the mind. by Robert Green Ingersoll
11.Good athletes practice until they get it right, great athletes practice until they never get it wrong. by Zomar
12.Every success is built on the ability to do better than good enough.
13.We could never learn to be brave and patient if there were only joy in the world. by Helen Keller
14.A budget tells us what we can't afford, but it doesn't keep us from buying it. by William Feather
15.Life is a waste of time and time is a waste of life, so waste your time and have the time of your life!
16.A Woman can hide her love for 40 years, but her disgust and anger not for one day.
17.If you lie down with dogs, you will get up with fleas.
18.You never miss the water till the well has run dry.
19.A Gem cannot be polished without friction, nor man perfected witout trials.
20.The sweetest words in the English Language are : I told you so. by Gore Vidal.
21.The darkness of the whole world cannot swallow the glowing of a candle. by Robert Altinger
22.If you want to make your dreams come true, the first thing you have to do is wake up. by J. M. Power
23.One never notices what has been done; one can only see what remains.
24.Parents can only give advice or put them on their paths but the final forming of person lies in their own hand. by Anne frank
25.Always forgive your enermies, but never forget their names . by T. kennedy
26.A Friend is someone who reaches your hand but touches your heart.
27.Forgiveness does not change the past, but it does enlarge the future. by Paul Boese
28.An old belief is like an old shoe. We so value its comfort that we fail to notice the hole in it. by Robert Brault.
29.If you cant feed a hundred people, then feed just one. by Mother Teresa
30.It is easier to build strong children than to repair broken men. by frederick douglass
31.I ask not for a lighter burden, but for broader shoulders. by Jewish Proverb
I like all those nice and meaningful proverbs, it is very encouraging even though i'm not a christian...
There are some other proverbs like...
The activist is not the man who says the river is dirty. The activist is the man who cleans up the river. by Ross Perot
Falling in love is easy but staying in love is something special.
As long as you going to be thinking anyway,think big. by Donald trump
You cant help getting older but you dont have to look old.
A man needs self-acceptace or he can't live with himself. He needs self- criticism or others cant live with him. by James A pike
Many a man has fallen in love with a girl in a light so dim he would not have chosen a suit by it. by Maurice Chevalier
A foolish man tells a woman to stop talking, but a wise man tells her that her mouth is extremely beautiful when her lips are closed.!!!!! LOL
Here are some proverbs I recommend you, please check out! Trust me, this is not a Bible lesson!!!
01..Life is the art of drawing without an eraser.by John Gardener
02.If God wanted us to bend over he'd put diamonds on the floor. by Joan Rivers
03.Life must be understood backwards; but it must be lived forward. by Soren kierkegaard
04.The hardest thing in life is to know which bridge to cross and which to burn. by david russell
05.All you need is love, but a little chocolate now and then doesn't hurt. by charles M. Schultz
06.A man who wants to lead the orchestra must turn his back on the crowd
07.Genius may have it's limitation , but stupidity is not thus handicapped. by Elbert Hubbard
08.Be grateful for what you have, while in pursuit of what you want. By jim Rohn
09.It is hard to fail, but it is worse never to have tried to succeed. by Theodore Roosevelt
10.Anger is a wind which blows out the lamp of the mind. by Robert Green Ingersoll
11.Good athletes practice until they get it right, great athletes practice until they never get it wrong. by Zomar
12.Every success is built on the ability to do better than good enough.
13.We could never learn to be brave and patient if there were only joy in the world. by Helen Keller
14.A budget tells us what we can't afford, but it doesn't keep us from buying it. by William Feather
15.Life is a waste of time and time is a waste of life, so waste your time and have the time of your life!
16.A Woman can hide her love for 40 years, but her disgust and anger not for one day.
17.If you lie down with dogs, you will get up with fleas.
18.You never miss the water till the well has run dry.
19.A Gem cannot be polished without friction, nor man perfected witout trials.
20.The sweetest words in the English Language are : I told you so. by Gore Vidal.
21.The darkness of the whole world cannot swallow the glowing of a candle. by Robert Altinger
22.If you want to make your dreams come true, the first thing you have to do is wake up. by J. M. Power
23.One never notices what has been done; one can only see what remains.
24.Parents can only give advice or put them on their paths but the final forming of person lies in their own hand. by Anne frank
25.Always forgive your enermies, but never forget their names . by T. kennedy
26.A Friend is someone who reaches your hand but touches your heart.
27.Forgiveness does not change the past, but it does enlarge the future. by Paul Boese
28.An old belief is like an old shoe. We so value its comfort that we fail to notice the hole in it. by Robert Brault.
29.If you cant feed a hundred people, then feed just one. by Mother Teresa
30.It is easier to build strong children than to repair broken men. by frederick douglass
31.I ask not for a lighter burden, but for broader shoulders. by Jewish Proverb
I like all those nice and meaningful proverbs, it is very encouraging even though i'm not a christian...
There are some other proverbs like...
The activist is not the man who says the river is dirty. The activist is the man who cleans up the river. by Ross Perot
Falling in love is easy but staying in love is something special.
As long as you going to be thinking anyway,think big. by Donald trump
You cant help getting older but you dont have to look old.
A man needs self-acceptace or he can't live with himself. He needs self- criticism or others cant live with him. by James A pike
Many a man has fallen in love with a girl in a light so dim he would not have chosen a suit by it. by Maurice Chevalier
A foolish man tells a woman to stop talking, but a wise man tells her that her mouth is extremely beautiful when her lips are closed.!!!!! LOL
Monday, February 21, 2011
My Valentine This year
No more flowers,cake and celebration... LOL :(
We were at the Church of St Teresa on valentine day. Truth to told Aunty PAT passed away on 13th February 2011.
Aunty PAT:May You Rest in Peace & God will bless You in heaven
We will definitely miss you ...
My deepest condolences to Jenny And Michelle.
We were at the Church of St Teresa on valentine day. Truth to told Aunty PAT passed away on 13th February 2011.
Aunty PAT:May You Rest in Peace & God will bless You in heaven
We will definitely miss you ...
My deepest condolences to Jenny And Michelle.
Friday, July 23, 2010
爱要怎么说出口
其实这首歌是要给一个和我相处了16年的老公。这几天我在报纸看到一则关于坪骨术的算命术和有关运势。原来老公的命重两超轻，属于命不好。同样的，说他一生大起大落，富不久，穷也不久，晚年飘零孤独。
我不解的是为么他晚年飘零孤独？？？！！！我和两个女儿怎么会丢弃他老人家呢？？？难道他离我们而去？？？为什么晚年他的命会这样的凄惨呢？？？我仿佛看到自己内心的另一面，也透视了自己丑陋心态。是时候，该停下脚步，好好的反省，哪里做错了，不能让自己再错下去。。。。。。
我自认是个容易发脾气的人，缺乏自省的行为，还有，就是死都不认错的人！老公不是不好，我不喜欢他总是把妈妈挂在嘴边，妈妈说一，他不敢说二，就连睡觉都把手机放在床边，我快受不了了。。。。。。
话说回来，我不会因为这些事而把他赶出家门吧！！！究竟他努力赚钱养家，我们该怀有颗感恩之心，来回报他。那怕有一天，他真的得了老人痴呆症，我们也会请女佣来照顾他，也不会让他孤独一人生活！
我要对老公说，就当算我狠心离开了你，但你的两个宝贝女儿是绝对不会忘记你的，你不会因此而孤单。。。。。。
Tuesday, July 13, 2010
erhem...My Birthday again...
Since we had solid buffets for the past few weeks,we decided to go somewhere convenience not too far off. My hubby and I made the choice to go Shabu Shi. It was good hours at shabu shi @ HOUGANG Mall. A bit disappointed with the food,not much variety of food, mostly are frozen meat,but i liked the sauces. I am looking for a good Korean BBQ Steamboat???WHERE???!!!
My beloved girls and Kelly bought me a 3 in-1 gift set....
My beloved girls and Kelly bought me a 3 in-1 gift set....
They know I like coffee too...
And Bill bought me this, and it came in a nice pretty box too...
I'm super excited,hahaha...
P.S. Other things may change us, but we always start and end with FAMILY.
Thursday, July 8, 2010
去赌场了吗?
最近流行去赌场,每次都会听到朋友问起你去赌场了吗?我们倒去过好几次Marina Bay Sands 和Resort World Sentosa,就是没进去赌场! 理由是不想给一百元入门费,所谓还没赌就先输了一百哦!
其实去不去赌场对我说并不重要,毕竟十赌九输嘛!
所以我决定以另一种方式,同时让一家人都那么开心开心唷......那就是大吃一餐---自助餐,因为吃是我的最爱. (我就是那么的搀嘴).
不管那么多,俗语说能吃就是福嘛!
嘻嘻嘻嘻......
其实去不去赌场对我说并不重要,毕竟十赌九输嘛!
所以我决定以另一种方式,同时让一家人都那么开心开心唷......那就是大吃一餐---自助餐,因为吃是我的最爱. (我就是那么的搀嘴).
不管那么多,俗语说能吃就是福嘛!
嘻嘻嘻嘻......
Thursday, July 1, 2010
看韩剧听韩曲
最近在追看韩剧,包括有《欧巴桑,向前冲!》和《是美男啊》. 一开始就不喜欢，《是美男啊》这部韩剧,可能是因为太多美男吧,不适合我看! 但歌很好听哦,老二差不多每天一边哼韩歌一边做功课!还有,还有,每次看韩剧都笑很大声哦!
在她的感染下,渐渐地我也爱上了这首歌......
在这里分享《默默无语》的歌词
Ha ji mai gaor keu lai sao, mo len chao kai bo lil gaor
早知就不该做 早知就该装作不认识
안보이는 것처럼 볼수없는 것처럼
An bo yin en gao chao laom, bor su waom nen gao chao laon
像没被看到一样 想无法看见一样
널 아예 보지말 걸 그랬나봐
Naor, a ye, bo ji mai gaor keu lai na bwa
早知道就该干脆不要看到你
도망칠 걸 그랬어 못들은척 그럴걸
To mang qil gaor keu lai sao, mo deu len chao geu laor gaor
早知就该逃跑 早知就该装作听不见
듣지도 못하는 척 들을 수 없는 것처럼
Teu ji do mo ta nen chao, teu leur su waom nen gao chao laom
装作听不见 想无法听见一样
아예네 사랑듣지 않을 걸
A ye, ni sa lang deu ji a neur gaor
早知道就该干脆没听到你的爱
말도없이 사랑을 알게 하고 말도 없이 사랑을 내게 주고
Mar do wop xi sa lang eur ai gei ha go, mar do wop xi sa lang eur nai gei ju go
悄声无息的让我了解了爱 悄声无息的把爱交给了我
숨결 하나조차 널 담게 해놓고 이렇게 도망가니까
Sum giao la na jo cha, naor dam gei hai no ko yi lao kei to mang ka ni ga
连呼吸里都融进了你就这样逃走
말도없이 사랑이 나를떠나 말도없이 사랑이 나를 버려
Mar do wop xi sa lang yi na leur dao na, mar do wop xi sa lang yi na leur bao liao
爱情悄声无息的离开了我 爱情悄声无息的丢下了我
무슨 말을 할지 다문 입이 혼자서 놀란것 같아
Mu sen ma leur har ji, ta mun yi pi hon ja sao nor lan gao ga ta
想说点什么 紧闭的双唇独自惊讶
말도 없이 와서
Mar do wop xi wa s’hao
悄声无息的到来
왜 이렇게 아픈지 왜 자꾸만 아픈지
Wai yi lao kei a pen ji， wai cha gu man a pen ji
为什么如此难过 为什么总是难过
널 볼수 없다는거 네가 없다는거 말고
Naor bor su wop da nen gao， ni ga om da nen gao nai go
除了看不到你 没有你
모두 예전과 똑같은건데
Mo tu， ye jaon gua do ga ten gaon dei
全都和从前一样
말도없이 사랑을 알게 하고 말도 없이 사랑을 내게 주고
Mar do wop xi sa lang eur ai gei ha go, mar do wop xi sa lang eur nai gei ju go
悄声无息的让我了解了爱 悄声无息的把爱交给了我
숨결 하나조차 널 담게 해놓고 이렇게 도망가니까
Sum giao la na jo cha, naor dam gei hai to ko, yi lao kei to mang ka ni ga
连呼吸里都融进了你就这样逃走
말도없이 사랑이 나를떠나 말도없이 사랑이 나를 버려
Mar do wop xi sa lang yi na leur dao na， mar do wop xi sa lang yi na leur pao liao
爱情悄声无息我 爱情悄声无息的丢下了我
무슨 말을 할지 다문 입이 혼자서 놀란것 같아
Mu sen ma leur har ji ta mun yi pi， hon ja sao nor lan gao ga ta
想说点什么 紧闭的双唇独自惊讶
말도없이 눈물이 흘러내려 말도없이 가슴이 무너져가
Mar do wop xi nun mu li heur lao nai liao mar do wop xi ka seu mi mu nao jiao ga
眼泪悄声无息的留下 内心悄声无息的崩溃
말도없는 사랑을 기다리고 말도없는 사랑을 아파하고
Mar do wom nen sa lang eur ki da li go, mar do wom nen sa lang eur a pa ha go
悄声无息的等待爱情 悄声无息的为爱而痛
넋이 나가버려 바보가 되버려 하늘만 보고 우니까
Naok xi na ga bao liao, pa bo ga duei bao liao, ha neur man bo go wu ni ga
失魂落魄 变成傻瓜 只会看着天空哭泣
말도없이 이별이 나를찾아 말도없이 이별이 내게와서
Mar do wop xi yi biao li na neur cha cha mar do wop xi yi biao li nai gei wa sao
离别悄声无息的寻到我 离别悄声无息的走向我
준비도 못하고 너를 보내야하는 내맘이 놀란것 같아
Jun bi do mo ta go naor bo nai ya ha deu nen nai ma mi nor lan gao ga ta
毫无准备必须要送走你的我 惊慌失措
말도없이 와서
Mar do wop xi wa s’hao
悄声无息的到来
말도없이 왔다가 말도없이 떠나는
Mar do wop xi wa da ga， mar do wop xi dao na nen
悄声无息的到来 又言不发的离去
지나간 열병처럼 잠시 아프면 되나봐 작은 흉터만 남게되니까
Ji na gan yaor biang chao laom, cham xi a peu miaon duei na ba, cha gu, hiung tao man nam gei duei ni ga
就像愈合的感冒一样 好像暂时疼痛总是会留下伤疤
在她的感染下,渐渐地我也爱上了这首歌......
在这里分享《默默无语》的歌词
Ha ji mai gaor keu lai sao, mo len chao kai bo lil gaor
早知就不该做 早知就该装作不认识
안보이는 것처럼 볼수없는 것처럼
An bo yin en gao chao laom, bor su waom nen gao chao laon
像没被看到一样 想无法看见一样
널 아예 보지말 걸 그랬나봐
Naor, a ye, bo ji mai gaor keu lai na bwa
早知道就该干脆不要看到你
도망칠 걸 그랬어 못들은척 그럴걸
To mang qil gaor keu lai sao, mo deu len chao geu laor gaor
早知就该逃跑 早知就该装作听不见
듣지도 못하는 척 들을 수 없는 것처럼
Teu ji do mo ta nen chao, teu leur su waom nen gao chao laom
装作听不见 想无法听见一样
아예네 사랑듣지 않을 걸
A ye, ni sa lang deu ji a neur gaor
早知道就该干脆没听到你的爱
말도없이 사랑을 알게 하고 말도 없이 사랑을 내게 주고
Mar do wop xi sa lang eur ai gei ha go, mar do wop xi sa lang eur nai gei ju go
悄声无息的让我了解了爱 悄声无息的把爱交给了我
숨결 하나조차 널 담게 해놓고 이렇게 도망가니까
Sum giao la na jo cha, naor dam gei hai no ko yi lao kei to mang ka ni ga
连呼吸里都融进了你就这样逃走
말도없이 사랑이 나를떠나 말도없이 사랑이 나를 버려
Mar do wop xi sa lang yi na leur dao na, mar do wop xi sa lang yi na leur bao liao
爱情悄声无息的离开了我 爱情悄声无息的丢下了我
무슨 말을 할지 다문 입이 혼자서 놀란것 같아
Mu sen ma leur har ji, ta mun yi pi hon ja sao nor lan gao ga ta
想说点什么 紧闭的双唇独自惊讶
말도 없이 와서
Mar do wop xi wa s’hao
悄声无息的到来
왜 이렇게 아픈지 왜 자꾸만 아픈지
Wai yi lao kei a pen ji， wai cha gu man a pen ji
为什么如此难过 为什么总是难过
널 볼수 없다는거 네가 없다는거 말고
Naor bor su wop da nen gao， ni ga om da nen gao nai go
除了看不到你 没有你
모두 예전과 똑같은건데
Mo tu， ye jaon gua do ga ten gaon dei
全都和从前一样
말도없이 사랑을 알게 하고 말도 없이 사랑을 내게 주고
Mar do wop xi sa lang eur ai gei ha go, mar do wop xi sa lang eur nai gei ju go
悄声无息的让我了解了爱 悄声无息的把爱交给了我
숨결 하나조차 널 담게 해놓고 이렇게 도망가니까
Sum giao la na jo cha, naor dam gei hai to ko, yi lao kei to mang ka ni ga
连呼吸里都融进了你就这样逃走
말도없이 사랑이 나를떠나 말도없이 사랑이 나를 버려
Mar do wop xi sa lang yi na leur dao na， mar do wop xi sa lang yi na leur pao liao
爱情悄声无息我 爱情悄声无息的丢下了我
무슨 말을 할지 다문 입이 혼자서 놀란것 같아
Mu sen ma leur har ji ta mun yi pi， hon ja sao nor lan gao ga ta
想说点什么 紧闭的双唇独自惊讶
말도없이 눈물이 흘러내려 말도없이 가슴이 무너져가
Mar do wop xi nun mu li heur lao nai liao mar do wop xi ka seu mi mu nao jiao ga
眼泪悄声无息的留下 内心悄声无息的崩溃
말도없는 사랑을 기다리고 말도없는 사랑을 아파하고
Mar do wom nen sa lang eur ki da li go, mar do wom nen sa lang eur a pa ha go
悄声无息的等待爱情 悄声无息的为爱而痛
넋이 나가버려 바보가 되버려 하늘만 보고 우니까
Naok xi na ga bao liao, pa bo ga duei bao liao, ha neur man bo go wu ni ga
失魂落魄 变成傻瓜 只会看着天空哭泣
말도없이 이별이 나를찾아 말도없이 이별이 내게와서
Mar do wop xi yi biao li na neur cha cha mar do wop xi yi biao li nai gei wa sao
离别悄声无息的寻到我 离别悄声无息的走向我
준비도 못하고 너를 보내야하는 내맘이 놀란것 같아
Jun bi do mo ta go naor bo nai ya ha deu nen nai ma mi nor lan gao ga ta
毫无准备必须要送走你的我 惊慌失措
말도없이 와서
Mar do wop xi wa s’hao
悄声无息的到来
말도없이 왔다가 말도없이 떠나는
Mar do wop xi wa da ga， mar do wop xi dao na nen
悄声无息的到来 又言不发的离去
지나간 열병처럼 잠시 아프면 되나봐 작은 흉터만 남게되니까
Ji na gan yaor biang chao laom, cham xi a peu miaon duei na ba, cha gu, hiung tao man nam gei duei ni ga
就像愈合的感冒一样 好像暂时疼痛总是会留下伤疤
Saturday, June 26, 2010
Thursday, June 24, 2010
冷气空凋
房间新的冷气空凋可说是冻感十足..每晚我把温度调到25都差点把我冷死!
这台新和旧的那台也是Mitsubishi StarMex Inverter...说来话长,卧房旧的这台冷气没坏......
老公找来一家冷气清洗公司,那里知道,冷气公司老板在隔天，便安排了他的员工到我家做冷气清洗！我还来不及货比三家.(太过份了吧!!!)在无奈之下，只好请他们入屋.经过三四个小时的清洗,果然不出所料,其他三台的冷气空凋,真的有所改善,唯独我这台没冻感,气死我了!!!???
最后,老公只好找另一家冷气公司,他们说只是换个chip,就得花上$600-$700!
真倒霉,只好换一台新的,好像被骗了一次......
这台新和旧的那台也是Mitsubishi StarMex Inverter...说来话长,卧房旧的这台冷气没坏......
老公找来一家冷气清洗公司,那里知道,冷气公司老板在隔天，便安排了他的员工到我家做冷气清洗！我还来不及货比三家.(太过份了吧!!!)在无奈之下，只好请他们入屋.经过三四个小时的清洗,果然不出所料,其他三台的冷气空凋,真的有所改善,唯独我这台没冻感,气死我了!!!???
最后,老公只好找另一家冷气公司,他们说只是换个chip,就得花上$600-$700!
真倒霉,只好换一台新的,好像被骗了一次......
Tuesday, June 22, 2010
後悔总是在......
其实经过这两天,我才毅然发现,我必須为自己的舉止负责,那是因为我无形中把痛苦建立在他人的身上......
从这一次的事件中让我了解和明白很多事.所谓朋友的定义,那些是真心对待你的,那些是一辈子的朋友......
我的确没有考虑到别人的感受,只为了方便自己，以達到自己的慾望或目的，伤害了无辜的人......
其实不是這樣的......
最后,我想说:
你们难过,无奈的心...... 我都听到. 真的很抱歉.
从这一次的事件中让我了解和明白很多事.所谓朋友的定义,那些是真心对待你的,那些是一辈子的朋友......
我的确没有考虑到别人的感受,只为了方便自己，以達到自己的慾望或目的，伤害了无辜的人......
其实不是這樣的......
最后,我想说:
你们难过,无奈的心...... 我都听到. 真的很抱歉.
Tuesday, June 1, 2010
怎样做人?
大多数的父母只要求孩子考好成绩，就忽略了孩子们基本的礼貌.只考好成绩未必能出人头地......
想要出人头地,你必须拥有良好的品格。因此，我会大力推荐《弟子规》这本书为"最佳读物"。读了《弟子规》后，我懂得了很多做人的道理。今后,我要严格要求自己，用《弟子规》来衡量自己,也希望自己的孩子们做个懂事的孩子，接受父母的意见，听取父母的教导,令父母感到欣慰......
弟子规,圣人训;首孝弟,次谨信.
泛爱中,而亲仁;有余力,则学文.
父母呼,应勿缓;父母命,行勿懒.
父母教,应敬听;父母责,须顺承.
我用了一天的时间来背熟这开头的一小段 ......好惭愧......
孝顺父母,敬爱兄长；先要守信用，后要有爱心，多接近好品行的人，就会把心力用在学习上。父母呼叫我们的时候，要马上回应; 父母交待我们做事的时候，不可偷懒；教训我们的时候要认真听；责备我们的时候，也要真心接受和反省。
以前，我只顾做自己的事,没去问父母的意见.到后来,才发现做了许多后悔的事情.
回想从前,如果,我说如果,能回到童年......
想要出人头地,你必须拥有良好的品格。因此，我会大力推荐《弟子规》这本书为"最佳读物"。读了《弟子规》后，我懂得了很多做人的道理。今后,我要严格要求自己，用《弟子规》来衡量自己,也希望自己的孩子们做个懂事的孩子，接受父母的意见，听取父母的教导,令父母感到欣慰......
弟子规,圣人训;首孝弟,次谨信.
泛爱中,而亲仁;有余力,则学文.
父母呼,应勿缓;父母命,行勿懒.
父母教,应敬听;父母责,须顺承.
我用了一天的时间来背熟这开头的一小段 ......好惭愧......
孝顺父母,敬爱兄长；先要守信用，后要有爱心，多接近好品行的人，就会把心力用在学习上。父母呼叫我们的时候，要马上回应; 父母交待我们做事的时候，不可偷懒；教训我们的时候要认真听；责备我们的时候，也要真心接受和反省。
以前，我只顾做自己的事,没去问父母的意见.到后来,才发现做了许多后悔的事情.
回想从前,如果,我说如果,能回到童年......
Wednesday, May 26, 2010
听我讲故事！！！
(一)
《弟子规》全书只有360句，每句三个字，共1080字.我家老二从小四就能把弟子规读起来琅琅上口，这就得归功于她的陈老师了。。。。。。弟子规里所提倡的道德教育，适合老少咸宜,没有人不能学好,是值得我们多多学习的. 让我们看看以下这一段吧。。。。。。
“冬则温，夏则凊，晨则省，昏则定，出必告，反必面，居有常，业无变”。意思说:“为人子女，冬天要留意父母亲穿的是否温暖，居处是否暖和。夏天，要考虑父母是否感到凉爽。每早起床，一定要看望父母亲，请问身体是否安好；傍晚回来了，也一定要向父母亲问安。外出时，先告诉父母要到哪里去，回家以后，一定先见父母亲，让他们感到心安。日常生活起要有一定的秩序，而且对于所从事的事情，不随便改变.
(二)
有个故事，说一位伟大的母亲含辛茹苦把孩子养大，还供他出国深造。到了晚年，孩子学成归来，原本是母亲享福的时刻!? 有一天孩子带母亲到公园的一张长木凳坐下，听他诉说国外的生活，听着听着母亲累了，就把头伏在孩子的肩榜上睡着了。没想到，这一睡=母亲的长眠！ 母亲就这样度过了她的晚年生活。。。。。。
（三）
又有一位母亲，病情反复无常，医生一再强调要有心理准备。为了医母亲的病，全家的积蓄都花光了。有一晚，母亲吩咐孩子买一碗"午餐肉火腿通心粉"给她作晚餐。孩子立刻跑去楼下food court买,在food court里，他看到"午餐肉火腿通心粉"是10元，"火腿通心粉"是4元，刚巧口袋里只剩下20元，心想：一块午餐肉要6元？没多加考虑就要了"火腿通心粉"。母亲没多问，就吃了几口。没想到，那一餐是母亲的最后一餐！！！孩子自责那天的吝啬，如果他知道那天是母亲最后的晚餐，别说是6元，60元-他也会完成她的心愿。
非常动人的故事！！！
P/S.不要让我们的生活有那么一点点的遗憾！
《弟子规》全书只有360句，每句三个字，共1080字.我家老二从小四就能把弟子规读起来琅琅上口，这就得归功于她的陈老师了。。。。。。弟子规里所提倡的道德教育，适合老少咸宜,没有人不能学好,是值得我们多多学习的. 让我们看看以下这一段吧。。。。。。
“冬则温，夏则凊，晨则省，昏则定，出必告，反必面，居有常，业无变”。意思说:“为人子女，冬天要留意父母亲穿的是否温暖，居处是否暖和。夏天，要考虑父母是否感到凉爽。每早起床，一定要看望父母亲，请问身体是否安好；傍晚回来了，也一定要向父母亲问安。外出时，先告诉父母要到哪里去，回家以后，一定先见父母亲，让他们感到心安。日常生活起要有一定的秩序，而且对于所从事的事情，不随便改变.
(二)
有个故事，说一位伟大的母亲含辛茹苦把孩子养大，还供他出国深造。到了晚年，孩子学成归来，原本是母亲享福的时刻!? 有一天孩子带母亲到公园的一张长木凳坐下，听他诉说国外的生活，听着听着母亲累了，就把头伏在孩子的肩榜上睡着了。没想到，这一睡=母亲的长眠！ 母亲就这样度过了她的晚年生活。。。。。。
（三）
又有一位母亲，病情反复无常，医生一再强调要有心理准备。为了医母亲的病，全家的积蓄都花光了。有一晚，母亲吩咐孩子买一碗"午餐肉火腿通心粉"给她作晚餐。孩子立刻跑去楼下food court买,在food court里，他看到"午餐肉火腿通心粉"是10元，"火腿通心粉"是4元，刚巧口袋里只剩下20元，心想：一块午餐肉要6元？没多加考虑就要了"火腿通心粉"。母亲没多问，就吃了几口。没想到，那一餐是母亲的最后一餐！！！孩子自责那天的吝啬，如果他知道那天是母亲最后的晚餐，别说是6元，60元-他也会完成她的心愿。
非常动人的故事！！！
P/S.不要让我们的生活有那么一点点的遗憾！
Tuesday, May 25, 2010
Good morning !
Life is too short to wake up in the morning with regrets,so love those who treat you right and forget about the ones who don't. Nobody said life would be as easy as ABC, but just promised it would be worth it,perhaps...
Raising a sibling's children is not an easy task nowaday. My niece may not happy to live with ME,because i set some new rules,but they doesnt work!!! Should i give her time and space to adjust? How long will she takes to adjust?
I realized that my past relationship influence my niece's expectation of the relationship with her. In order to keep the positive attitude between us ,I need to seek a solution,anyone can HELP!!!
Raising a sibling's children is not an easy task nowaday. My niece may not happy to live with ME,because i set some new rules,but they doesnt work!!! Should i give her time and space to adjust? How long will she takes to adjust?
I realized that my past relationship influence my niece's expectation of the relationship with her. In order to keep the positive attitude between us ,I need to seek a solution,anyone can HELP!!!
Monday, May 24, 2010
Thursday, May 20, 2010
听妈妈的话
歌手:周杰伦
小朋友 你是否有很多问号
为什么别人在那看漫画
我却在学画画 对着钢琴说话
别人在玩游戏 我却靠在墙壁背我的ABC
我说我要一个大大的飞机
但却得到一台旧旧录音机
为什么要听妈妈的话
长大后你就会开始懂了这段话
长大后我开始明白
为什么我跑得比别人快
飞得比别人高
将来大家看的都是我画的漫画
大家唱的都是我写的歌
妈妈的辛苦不让你看见
外面的事不在她心里面
有空就去多握握她的手
把手牵着一起梦游
听妈妈的话 别让她受伤
想快快长大 才能保护她
美丽的白发 幸福总发芽
天使的魔法 温暖中慈祥
在你的未来 音乐是你的王牌
拿王牌谈个恋爱 爱我不想把你教坏
还是听妈妈的话吧 晚点再恋爱吧
我知道你未来的路 当妈比我更清楚
你会看着学习的同学在这会写东写西
但我建议你最好写 妈妈我会用功读书
用功读书怎么会从我嘴巴说出
不想你输 所以要教你用功读书
妈妈织给你的毛衣你要好好的收着
因为不知道时我会告诉他我还留着
对了 我会遇到周润发
所以你可以跟同学炫耀赌神未来是你爸爸
我找不到童年写的情书
你千万不要承认
因为我了解你会照着纸上学的
你也会开始自己会唱流行歌
因为张学友开始准备唱吻别
听妈妈的话 别让她受伤
想快快长大 才能保护她
美丽的白发 幸福总发芽
天使的魔法 温暖中慈祥
听妈妈的话 别让她受伤
想快快长大 才能保护她
长大后我开始明白
为什么我跑得比别人快
飞得比别人高
将来大家看的都是我画的漫画
大家唱的都是我写的歌
妈妈的辛苦不让你看见
外面的事不在她心里面
有空就去多握握她的手
把手牵着一起梦游
听妈妈的话 别让她受伤
想快快长大 才能保护她
美丽的白发 幸福总发芽
天使的魔法 温暖中慈祥
小朋友 你是否有很多问号
为什么别人在那看漫画
我却在学画画 对着钢琴说话
别人在玩游戏 我却靠在墙壁背我的ABC
我说我要一个大大的飞机
但却得到一台旧旧录音机
为什么要听妈妈的话
长大后你就会开始懂了这段话
长大后我开始明白
为什么我跑得比别人快
飞得比别人高
将来大家看的都是我画的漫画
大家唱的都是我写的歌
妈妈的辛苦不让你看见
外面的事不在她心里面
有空就去多握握她的手
把手牵着一起梦游
听妈妈的话 别让她受伤
想快快长大 才能保护她
美丽的白发 幸福总发芽
天使的魔法 温暖中慈祥
在你的未来 音乐是你的王牌
拿王牌谈个恋爱 爱我不想把你教坏
还是听妈妈的话吧 晚点再恋爱吧
我知道你未来的路 当妈比我更清楚
你会看着学习的同学在这会写东写西
但我建议你最好写 妈妈我会用功读书
用功读书怎么会从我嘴巴说出
不想你输 所以要教你用功读书
妈妈织给你的毛衣你要好好的收着
因为不知道时我会告诉他我还留着
对了 我会遇到周润发
所以你可以跟同学炫耀赌神未来是你爸爸
我找不到童年写的情书
你千万不要承认
因为我了解你会照着纸上学的
你也会开始自己会唱流行歌
因为张学友开始准备唱吻别
听妈妈的话 别让她受伤
想快快长大 才能保护她
美丽的白发 幸福总发芽
天使的魔法 温暖中慈祥
听妈妈的话 别让她受伤
想快快长大 才能保护她
长大后我开始明白
为什么我跑得比别人快
飞得比别人高
将来大家看的都是我画的漫画
大家唱的都是我写的歌
妈妈的辛苦不让你看见
外面的事不在她心里面
有空就去多握握她的手
把手牵着一起梦游
听妈妈的话 别让她受伤
想快快长大 才能保护她
美丽的白发 幸福总发芽
天使的魔法 温暖中慈祥
死牛一便颈
今天是第35天,还有1060天. 唉!要怎样的挨下去呢? 家里多了一男一女,现在我们是一家六口一起生活. 可以想象家里是多么的乱七八糟...... 打从何时我们一家四口,和乐融融的画面被打乱了呢???
今天我是为了别人而烦恼,我发现我的生活方式并不是那么快乐,但,我总是告诉自己要往好的方面去想,就不会为了一点小事斤斤计较. 为什么不好好的和她沟通,好好的相处呢?
在此,我想告诉她,真正爱她和帮她的人,往往不会说太多爱她的话却会做许多爱她的事.
希望她不要那么任性和叛逆,妈妈含辛茹苦把你养大,不求你感恩,只求你听话就心满意 足了.
如果有一天你看到我们不小心流下一滴泪水,那是因为我们不愿意忘记你是谁!
P/S: 爱一个人,记得不要爱那么多,要留回一点来爱自己.
今天我是为了别人而烦恼,我发现我的生活方式并不是那么快乐,但,我总是告诉自己要往好的方面去想,就不会为了一点小事斤斤计较. 为什么不好好的和她沟通,好好的相处呢?
在此,我想告诉她,真正爱她和帮她的人,往往不会说太多爱她的话却会做许多爱她的事.
希望她不要那么任性和叛逆,妈妈含辛茹苦把你养大,不求你感恩,只求你听话就心满意 足了.
如果有一天你看到我们不小心流下一滴泪水,那是因为我们不愿意忘记你是谁!
P/S: 爱一个人,记得不要爱那么多,要留回一点来爱自己.
Thursday, April 22, 2010
吃吃喝喝
一讲到吃，我们一家四口就有得争了。现在来了kelly那就有的烦了！
老大选择打包回家吃，老幺不想吃，老公要去food court 吃，kelly要减肥，我可头疼了。。。。。。
最后，全都得听我的，换个口味吃韩国料理吧！
老大选择打包回家吃，老幺不想吃，老公要去food court 吃，kelly要减肥，我可头疼了。。。。。。
最后，全都得听我的，换个口味吃韩国料理吧！
Wednesday, April 14, 2010
我又肥来了!!!
这几天来吃太多,不肥才怪 .昨天和大姐去king hotel 吃buffet.那里的豆花,nyonya糕点和 penang asam laksa 味道都很不错．在优雅的环境和温馨的服务下，我们就休闲的吃，幸福的吃．虽然说是buffet,但是服务员还是把食物端来给我们．只因为她是Mrs Allan．．．．．．
Friday, April 9, 2010
Press COFFEE
From the name,this is the only way,our coffee come in a press. I like to use this press pot because it gives a strong rich cup of coffee. We enjoy our morning coffee.
I love to drink coffee, i appreciate a good cuppa of coffee...latte,cuppoccino,espresso,mocha and many more... Do try on any of these ,they are very good coffee!
Tuesday, March 16, 2010
Something to do with Durians...
Omg! I simply love durians. Whenever i go out now, i will head for durians first (freshly shucked durians). Too bad jac & celeste hate durians. BUT, i have some KAKIS...
I'm looking forwards to Durian Fiesta @ Goodwood Park Hotel... yummy...
FYI,I've just eaten durian puffs and durian Eclair.
Saturday, March 13, 2010
MY love for...
I tend to stick to the cosy places that i'm comfortable with--- like swensen-which is near my house.
Recently, i'm so deeply in love with ice cream, especially durian ice cream. It's always irresistible to me,believe me it will never let you down... it's feels like LV bag to the fashionisto... it's LOVE .
Anyway, I've just eaten durian for my dinner!
Thursday, January 28, 2010
Doing These ... Jan & Feb
EXAM
tropical revision
CNY
cookies
SHOPPING
clothes & ny stuffs
DINNER
Vivo &Veanna
ICA
CITIZENSHIP
=
CRAZY
tropical revision
CNY
cookies
SHOPPING
clothes & ny stuffs
DINNER
Vivo &Veanna
ICA
CITIZENSHIP
=
CRAZY
Friday, January 15, 2010
除了浪费时间，还是浪费时间．．．
回想2009年。。。
没有好好设立自己的计划,也没有控制自己的时间表。。。
之前定下的计划,也就不了了之。。。
觉得有点可惜,也有点沮衰。。。白白浪费一整年的时间！
现在我坐下来写blog，是否也是在浪费时间呢？？？？
可是，我想说的是－－－今年我还会再计划自己的一年大计，不过范围会实际一点咯！我会从小事做起。。。比如，每个星期天带孩子去游泳，骑脚踏车。。。孩子的强制性复习时间表。。。多聆听孩子的心声等。。。。
对于自己个人的计划，离目标太摇远了。。。还是暂时保留吧！！！
也许你会取笑我，这些垃圾怎么会在我的一年大计里呢？？？。。。只因为我是个平凡的人。。。哈哈哈
其实，在现实生活中，我们不应该太在意昨天而失去了今天甚至明天和后天。。。
就从今天起，我们该控制好自己的计划吧！
没有好好设立自己的计划,也没有控制自己的时间表。。。
之前定下的计划,也就不了了之。。。
觉得有点可惜,也有点沮衰。。。白白浪费一整年的时间！
现在我坐下来写blog，是否也是在浪费时间呢？？？？
可是，我想说的是－－－今年我还会再计划自己的一年大计，不过范围会实际一点咯！我会从小事做起。。。比如，每个星期天带孩子去游泳，骑脚踏车。。。孩子的强制性复习时间表。。。多聆听孩子的心声等。。。。
对于自己个人的计划，离目标太摇远了。。。还是暂时保留吧！！！
也许你会取笑我，这些垃圾怎么会在我的一年大计里呢？？？。。。只因为我是个平凡的人。。。哈哈哈
其实，在现实生活中，我们不应该太在意昨天而失去了今天甚至明天和后天。。。
就从今天起，我们该控制好自己的计划吧！
Friday, January 1, 2010
2010~新的一年,新的希望~
今天又迈进了新的一年,每到这个时候，总是看到朋友们开始讨论孩子们新的学期,接下来是华人新年了.....
挨...几乎每年都是这样!
想一想,还有差不多一个月半是华人新年,该是时侯回家了,因为回家过年，是温馨的~~家永远是我们的港湾。
☆祝 大家: 新年愉快，幸福安康！
挨...几乎每年都是这样!
想一想,还有差不多一个月半是华人新年,该是时侯回家了,因为回家过年，是温馨的~~家永远是我们的港湾。
☆祝 大家: 新年愉快，幸福安康！
Tuesday, December 29, 2009
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