Friday, October 7, 2011

撒谎

忐忑不安的心,让我继续撒谎,本来不想把自己内心的话写在部咯格或FB上,只是想偶尔发泄牢骚。请原谅我,又一次撒了谎!!!

我不得不在孩子面前撒谎,因为现在是考试季节,孩子们的学习任务繁重,大脑都处在高度紧张状态,每晚温习到早上1-2点。我真的不得不撒谎,因为,深怕会影响他们的心情。所以,我想明天,后天,我还会撒谎。。。。。。

这是否是个善意的谎言,我不知道,我只希望一切平安度过。。。时间不早了,我得赶去医院探望孩子最亲的人,这就是我所说的谎言。。。。。。

Friday, September 16, 2011

听你说

有故事的人。。。。。。



很喜悦的9月,对我来说而已,好烂咯,哈哈哈。。。
找到我的VIP的朋友,超开心,因为她是我失散20年的朋友。。。
这几天自己会莫名其妙的兴奋,紧张,神经兮兮的,哈哈哈。。。
有时候会6早7早起身,会上网找找MSN 或 Facebook 和她上网聊天,像中毒一样。。。
虽然在web cam chat chat而已,但在这个小小的空间,已挤满了我们的欢笑,真是的。。。
如果你们半夜一两点看到我在网上的话,请假装看不到!
因为美国和这里的时差15个小时!我得调整自己的时间,要把20年前的事,慢慢地聊,真得chat疯了。。。

这个7月他们一家从美国来探望我们了,很可惜,我错过了,很遗憾。。。
其实,我很庆幸还有她,还记得我这个超烂的朋友,感激+感动到。。。
所以,我学会,会好好珍惜所拥有的人,事和物,才能对得起自己!就让我偶尔emo emo 就好。。。

VIP是我最要好的朋友,
以后的日子希望他们会更美好,
继续加油,我真心祝福他们!
永远健康快乐幸福=)
希望明年再相见,很期待。。。

P/S:一个人是不是真的在乎你,可以从对方的回复看出来 - 是用心地回答,随便敷衍你,还是完全不理睬你。

Wednesday, August 31, 2011

喝咖啡去了。。。

咖啡永远都是我的精神良伴,每天早晨一杯咖啡,是美好的开始。接下来的那一杯,就和好友好好的享受咖啡和聊天。也许老公是海南人,在他的影响下每天都得喝上至少两杯打底。我喜欢咖啡的香濃,是增添生活的滋味。。。
今天一早安排好要和Tiffany去喝咖啡又聊天,我们聊什么?我们聊孩子,聊家人,聊旅行,聊未来,聊别人,聊某某人。。。最后,我们聊8卦咯!!!

和她聊天,真的发现有很多共同的看法与想法。
和她聊天,真的很开心很享受。

平时当孩子们都上学去,老公也上班去的时候,
我们2个女人可厉害咯可以畅谈4-5个小时,4-5个小时可以做些什么呢?又谈些什么呢?

有一次4个小时,换了3个地方,
包括 breakfast,lunch and tea time了!!!
我们2个是咖啡精,点了一样的咖啡,过后就比例巴拉, 比例巴拉的讲个不停。时间差不多了,要卦约了
下次有聚会叫“埋”你们啊~~

Sunday, August 28, 2011

黄黄的,蓝蓝的天空。。。







我很羡慕鸟儿,因为不管早上或傍晚,都能看见它们在柱子上歇息。。。
我们是否也一样,偶尔累了,也可以像鸟儿那样找个地方歇一歇,然后再出发? 我想这样的生活应该会很充实,很实在。。。

Friday, July 22, 2011

鸵鸟心态

鸵鸟有什么不好呢?虽然它不会飞,不会游,但却是跑得最快的鸟!
有时觉得自己像只鸵鸟。也许把头埋在地下,就可以假装一切都是平静的。不是很好吗?!

Tuesday, April 19, 2011

Notes for ...

Before you can win, you have to believe you are worthy. By Mike Ditka
Winning isn't everything, but more importantly, it is that experience matters.
You were born to win, but to be a winner you must plan to win, prepare to win and expect to win. by Zig Ziglar


You cannot run away from your weakness; you must some time fight it out or perish. by Robert Louis Stevenson
If you don't like the road you're walking start paving another one. by Dolly Parton
Never let life's hardships disturb you; no one can avoid problems, not even saints or sages. By Michiren Daishonen
Never be afraid to try something new. Remember , amateurs built the ark.Professional built the Titanic. By Anon
To reach a port, we must sail,sail , not tie at anchor . Sail, not drift By Franklin Roosevelt
I love those who can smile in trouble, who can gather strength from distress, and grow brave by reflection. by Leonardo Da Vinci

You learn something every day if you pay attention by Ray LeBlond
If your actions inspire others to dream more, learn more and become more, you are a leader by Jihn Quincy Adams
Trying to get everyone to like you is a sign of mediocrity(accomplishment) by Colin Powell

A true friend is someone who thinks that you are a good egg even though he knows that you are slightly cracked. By bernard meltzer
Sometime your source of joy is your smile and sometime your joy is your source of smile by Thich nanth
Sometime True friends stab you in the front. by Oscar Wilde

There is an eagle in me that wants to soar and there is a hippopotamus in me that wants to wallow in the mud by Carl Sandburg.
Blessed are those who give without remembering, and blessed are those who take without forgetting. by Bernard Meltzer.

The only way of finding the limits of the possible is by going beyong them into the impossible. by Arthur C. Clarke
The real leader has no need to lead. He is content to point the way. by Henry Miller
You can't dream yourself into a character: you must hammer and forge yourself into one. By Henry D Thoreau
If wrinkles must be written upon our brows let them not be written upon the heart.

Monday, April 4, 2011

Durian Muffin


I have been wanting to bake durian muffins for such a long time. Today,I finally managed to find some time to get the main ingredient for my muffins...DURIAN!
The durian season seems to be around already, I bought durians in ready-packed form, 3 packets for $10. They were D24 type of durian, not bad also, the flesh were in bright yellow and tasted very sweet.
Durian muffin recipe:
Ingredients:
300g all-purpose flour
100g sugar
2 teaspoons double baking powder
1/2 teaspoon salt
75g butter, melted
1 egg, lightly beaten
3/4 cup milk
500g durian pulp
Method:
1.Preheat oven to 190 degC.
2.Melt butter over low heat in a saucepan. Set aside.
3.Separate durian pulp from seeds, mash slightly with a fork and set aside.
4.Add egg to the melted butter. Stir till combine. Add in milk and half of the durian pulp. Stir to combine.
5.In another bowl, combine the flour, sugar, double baking powder and salt. Use a spatula or whisk to mix the dry ingredients completely .
6.Add the wet ingredients to the dry ingredients and stir only until the ingredients are just combined. The mixture will appear very lumpy. Do not over mix the batter otherwise the muffins will become tough.
7.Spoon batter into the muffin cups, filling half full. Add 1 teaspoon of durian pulp to each, top with remaining batter. Fill up with the remaining batter to about two thirds full.
8.Bake for 25 to 30 minutes or until a tester inserted in the center of a muffin comes out clean.

英语怎么说?

那天去扫墓后,老二正在用她的GalaxyS来sms. 忽然,她问我:“Mummy,扫墓,英语怎么说?“ 糟糕了,在我的字典里应该是 Qingming Festival or Tomb-Sweeping Festival?听起来好像怪怪的。我便对她说:"你写华文的清明节就好。”LOL

明天四月五日是清明节,是一个纪念祖先的节日。 主要的纪念仪式是扫墓和拔野草吧!扫墓活动通常是在清明节的前十天或后十天,有些人扫墓活动长达一个月呢。。。。。。

还记得小时的清明节,母亲,婆婆和叔叔都会带着我们去Senawang那儿祭拜公公。从没想过会有那么一天,来到星加坡的地方也要祭拜老公的父亲。只是送上鲜花以基督教的方式祭拜,就那么简单。

还记得清明的诗歌吗? 清明时节雨纷纷,路上行人欲断魂。借问酒家何处有?牧童遥指杏花村。

如果有机会的活,我想去祭拜我的婆婆。。。。。。

Friday, April 1, 2011

What's pranks have u played on others?!

OMG! Today is April Fool Day. I am so bored, until I am reading my blog now, LOL!!! Let's talk about TEA today...
If you re cold, TEA will warm you. If you're heated, it will cool you. If you 're depressed, it will cheer you. If you're excited, it will calm you. by Gladstone. But, I prefer COFFEE especially Latte...
If you haven't been into coffee delights, then you are up to learning a lot of good stuff.
Let's me re-write the proverb,
If you re cold, COFFEE will warm you. If you 're depressed, Coffee will cheer you. If you're excited, Coffee will calm you. by ME.
I have 12 of the lattes from my Cafe to be serve you all here. Only for today!
So Enjoy! The cafe latte will be very hot, so drink carefully.

Tuesday, March 22, 2011

Never Ending....

A break up is like a broken mirror. It is better to leave it broken than hurt yourself to fix it .

I laugh, I love, I try, I hurt, I need, I fear, I cry. I know you do the same things too, So we're really not that different. By colin raye

Love looks through a telescope;envy through a microscope. by Josh Billings

Life is like a hot bath. It feels good while you're in it, but the longer you stay in, the more wrinkled you get.

Nothing can bring you happiness but yourself .by Emerson

We worry about what a child will become tomorrow, yet forget that he is someone today. by Stada Tauscher

The brain is like a muscle, when it is in use we feel very good. Understanding is joyous!!!! by carl sagan

Thousands of candle can be lit from a single candle and the life of the candle will not be shortened.

Never limit yourself because of others' limited imagination, never limit others because of your own limited imagination. by Mae Jemison Astronaut

Courage is the discovery that you may not win and trying when you know you can lose. by Tom Krause

The test of courage comes when we are in the minority. The test of tolerance comes when we are in the majority . By ralph w. Sockman

Girl wants a lot of things from one guy, conversely, guys want one thing from a lot of girls...hahaha

One cannot and must not try to erase the past merely because it does not fit the present. by Golda Meir

Patience serves as a protection against wrong, as clothes do against cold.By Leonardo Da Vinci

Borrow money from a pessimist - they don't expect it back!

But some friends borrowed money from me and I really needed it back, I m not a pessimist!

Thursday, March 17, 2011

〈後來〉

從第一次听,很愛很愛你,就开始喜欢刘若英。
她把后来,唱得很有感觉,很有味道。一首百听不厌的歌但是每次听了总会掉下眼泪。
我想这是因为一般人曾经有过一段难忘的故事吧,哈哈。。。。。。


Sunday, March 13, 2011

这次是鸡闯的祸!!!






三水鸡




























天啊......
已经不只吃一次了,不说你不知哦......两个星期里吃了第四次,好恐怖,不肥才怪呢!!!!


我啊......
昨天,我又再吃这道菜. 终于可以和老公孩子们一起享受这道所谓的白斩鸡吧! 其实我不太喜欢白斩鸡,但是三盅两件的<三水姜茸鸡>,就是我的最爱,很赞!!!

白鸡鲜嫩,不肥腻,把鸡肉和姜茸包在生菜里,吃了一块又一块,好好吃! 赞赞赞!!!


在此我必须很慎重的声明,从今天起我要停止,不要再吃三水鸡了:~ 嗚嗚嗚。
(因为我不想讓別人說我又变胖了)

还有还有,就是没完没了的我也要强力推荐,不再是鸡噢 。。。
Dian Xiao Er (店小二的 ~~~ 当归烤鸭),更赞!!!


明确声明:
这里没有冒犯任何一方,因为它们就是同属一个餐饮集团的.

下回再附上照片.

Saturday, March 12, 2011

『我读~如何做个理财掌门人』








我很少读书,一生人当中看最多最详细的应该就是漫画。不知何时开始,为了不想让自己宝贵的生活空虚地度过,......

Wednesday, March 9, 2011

没有cream的蛋糕

今天不想煮饭,想烘蛋糕吃。我一口气烘了两个蛋糕。有咸的,有甜的。




1)肉丝蛋糕卷


嘻嘻,这可是我的杰作,自己亲手做的。有mayonnaise和肉丝,好吃!:) 好像吃寿司。。。。。。








2)龙珠果蛋糕

前两天又做多一次。

新口味,里面可是粉红色。味道不够香,和普通的鸡蛋糕一样。 :(





3)班兰chiffon蛋糕


哈哈,还是用回同一个模型。刚刚出炉,这是我第一次烘chiffon蛋糕,不够松软也不比Bangawan Solo来的好吃。 :(








你们要不要来一块试一试看看?有钱都买不到的蛋糕。。。。。。嘻嘻嘻

Monday, March 7, 2011

Canon,还是Nikon了?

我们的新年真的没有什么照片, 因为没有相机的我就没有什么心情. 目前用手机和video camera或sanyo的超...慢的傻瓜相机拍照.


事隔了一年半, 我的Lumix DMC 应该是永久性的而不是暂时的RIP了. 我老早就把它放在抽屉里,看看什么时候的它会突然的醒过来! 完全我预料得到! 看情况应该可以宣告它的死亡时间是早上9点零5分,日期2011年3月7日.


现在就在考虑该买新相机的时候了. 在想要不要直接买DSLR呢?!(digital single-lens reflex cameras) 反正价钱都不算便宜! 我得好好考虑它的方便性还是长远性啊?! 先来比较它的好与坏吧!


好处:时下最流行的, 不是傻瓜相机, 摄影可是老公的嗜好...

坏处:不方便携带,的确价钱不便宜, 不属于完全自己的相机...

希望还有更多精彩,有待发现。






这台Nikon D7000太贵了$2299, 买不起, 不过, 真的还蛮Cool ....
我倒考虑考虑Nikon D3100 $999或D90$1688
不妨给点意见及提示吧!!!

URGENT: 我要快快去买新相机!!!!因为老公的生日要到来了......








Thursday, March 3, 2011

幾米的书籍

我喜欢幾米。。。。。。

幾米,是台湾著名绘画家。他的所谓不完美但可是超可爱的作品。里头每一页都有幾米的漫画和图片。适合一家大小的书籍,我会继续支持幾米。。。。。。

No。1 《我不是完美小孩》
大家好,我叫「郝完美」,现在读小学三年级。这个名字是爸妈为我取的。
他们说,我小时候,不管正面看背面看,醒着睡着,或笑或哭,我看起来都好完美。

可是,随着我慢慢长大,事情就变了……
爸妈的要求愈来愈多,学校的要求愈来愈严。
我觉得很累,真想大叫:我不是完美小孩啦!

我想知道,世界上有多少人跟我一样觉得自己不完美。
所以我鼓起勇气站上台,讲出我对于这件事的想法。
所有放弃追求完美的小孩和大人,欢迎来听讲。





No。2 《世界别为我担心》


我从小就是个很会担心的小孩。
消防车往家的方向奔去,我就担心失火的是我家。
老师说考试有人不及格,我就担心她说的一定是我。
朋友约会迟到,我就担心他是不是出车祸了。
听了鬼故事,就担心恶鬼上身。
我担心的事情真多,但发现真的值得担心的事并不多。
倒是我没担过心的事,却突如其来地让人担心不已。
人生到底该多担心还是不必担心,真是让人很担心。


有些人老是担心,有些人从不担心。
有些担心永恆而遥远,有些担心却是短暂而迫在眉睫。
担心就像感冒,一个人担心后,会有更多人紧跟着担心。
好担心跟别担心就像一体两面,一会担心一会又不担心。
关于这个世界你担心什麽?

Tuesday, March 1, 2011

We are happy family


Dear Jacin, these are nice for you!
My love I give unto you, it's a love that the world cannot give. It's a love that the world cannot understand...

Write bad things that are done to you in sand, but write good things that happen to you on a piece of marble.
Life is like an onion; you peel it off one layer at a time, and sometimes you weep. By Card Sandburg
Unless you change who you are , you will always have what you got.
When I let go of what I am, I become what I might be. By Lao tse
Love me when I least deserve it, because that's when I really need it.
It is not only flesh and blood but the heart which makes us mother and daughter. by Johann Schiller
If passion drives you, let reason hold the reins. by Benjamin Franklin
A hippie is someone who looks like tarzan, walks like Jane and smells like cheetah. by ronald reagan
Keep your face to the sunshine and you will not see the shadows. Helen Keller
Wherever you go, no matter what the weather, always bring your own sunshine by Anthony J D'Angelo

All people smiles with same language...
A hug and Kiss can heal the broken heart!!!! cool!
Anger is a condition in which the tongue works faster than the mind!
One cannot refuse to eat just because there is a chance of being choked
If you are still talking about what you did yesterday, you haven't done much today...
Children really brighten up a household- they never turn the lights off by Ralp Bus
Happiness is enhance by others but does not depend upon others!!!!
A hug is a great gift... One size fits all... It can be given for any occassion and it's easy to exchange
Whatever burdens you are carrying now, let them down, relax, pick them up later, after you have rested...
Everyday may not be good, but there's something good in every day...
A half-baked idea is okay as long as it's in the oven....

Dont aim for success if you want it; just do what you love and believe in, and it will come naturally.. by David Frost
Great minds discuss ideas. Average minds discuss events, small minds discuss people.
Dreams are like stars.... you may never touch them, but if you follow them they will lead you to your destiny...
Success is getting what you want. Happiness is wanting what you get.by Dale Carnegie
Bill Gates is very rich man today... and do you want to know why? the answer is one word: VERSIONS. By Dave Barry..
Falling down is not a defeat, defeat is when you refuse to get up.
Dont judge each day by the harvest you reap but by the seeds you plant. by Robert Louis Stevenson
Women are wiser than men because they know less and understand more... by James thurber
One begins cutting his/her wisdom teeth the first time when he/she bites off more than he can chew. by herb caen
Life is a shipwreck but we must not forget to sing in the lifeboats by voltaire
The most important thing a father can do for his children is to love their mother

Your children need your presence more than your presents. by Jesse Jackson...
Recession is when Neighbour loses his Job. Depression is when you lose yours.. by Ronald Reagan...
Learn all you can from the mistakes of others. You won't have time to make them all yourself. by Alfred Sheinwold
Always be a first-rate version of yourself, instead of a second rate version of somebody else. by Judy Garland
Being happy doesn't mean that everything is perfect. It means that you've decided to look beyond the imperfections. by Anon
True love is like a pair of socks: you gotta have two and they've gotta match. by Anon

Home is not where you live, but where they understand you by Christian Morganstern
A real man doesn't love a million girls. He loves ONE girl in a million ways.
Help a man when he is trouble & he'll remember u again when he is in trouble again.
An athlete cannot run with money in his pockets. He must run with HOPE in his heart and dreams in his head... emil Zatopeck
You grow up the day you have the first real laugh ... at yourself... by Ethel Barrymore

Life is a Game.... sometimes you win and sometimes you lose. But no matter what your Cards in life are, whether Club, Spade or Diamond, always REMEMBER... never play without HEART !!!!


Your joys, triumphs, successes & happiness are not mine, yet I can share in your laughter,Your decision in life are not mine to make, nor to judge, I can only support you, encourage, help you when you ask...
Please enjoy my sharings this morning...

Thursday, February 24, 2011

A proverb a day

Dear all friends .... Laugh as much as you breathe and love as long as you live...
Here are some proverbs I recommend you, please check out! Trust me, this is not a Bible lesson!!!


01..Life is the art of drawing without an eraser.by John Gardener
02.If God wanted us to bend over he'd put diamonds on the floor. by Joan Rivers
03.Life must be understood backwards; but it must be lived forward. by Soren kierkegaard
04.The hardest thing in life is to know which bridge to cross and which to burn. by david russell
05.All you need is love, but a little chocolate now and then doesn't hurt. by charles M. Schultz
06.A man who wants to lead the orchestra must turn his back on the crowd
07.Genius may have it's limitation , but stupidity is not thus handicapped. by Elbert Hubbard
08.Be grateful for what you have, while in pursuit of what you want. By jim Rohn
09.It is hard to fail, but it is worse never to have tried to succeed. by Theodore Roosevelt
10.Anger is a wind which blows out the lamp of the mind. by Robert Green Ingersoll

11.Good athletes practice until they get it right, great athletes practice until they never get it wrong. by Zomar
12.Every success is built on the ability to do better than good enough.
13.We could never learn to be brave and patient if there were only joy in the world. by Helen Keller
14.A budget tells us what we can't afford, but it doesn't keep us from buying it. by William Feather
15.Life is a waste of time and time is a waste of life, so waste your time and have the time of your life!
16.A Woman can hide her love for 40 years, but her disgust and anger not for one day.
17.If you lie down with dogs, you will get up with fleas.
18.You never miss the water till the well has run dry.
19.A Gem cannot be polished without friction, nor man perfected witout trials.
20.The sweetest words in the English Language are : I told you so. by Gore Vidal.


21.The darkness of the whole world cannot swallow the glowing of a candle. by Robert Altinger
22.If you want to make your dreams come true, the first thing you have to do is wake up. by J. M. Power
23.One never notices what has been done; one can only see what remains.
24.Parents can only give advice or put them on their paths but the final forming of person lies in their own hand. by Anne frank
25.Always forgive your enermies, but never forget their names . by T. kennedy
26.A Friend is someone who reaches your hand but touches your heart.
27.Forgiveness does not change the past, but it does enlarge the future. by Paul Boese
28.An old belief is like an old shoe. We so value its comfort that we fail to notice the hole in it. by Robert Brault.
29.If you cant feed a hundred people, then feed just one. by Mother Teresa
30.It is easier to build strong children than to repair broken men. by frederick douglass
31.I ask not for a lighter burden, but for broader shoulders. by Jewish Proverb

I like all those nice and meaningful proverbs, it is very encouraging even though i'm not a christian...
There are some other proverbs like...

The activist is not the man who says the river is dirty. The activist is the man who cleans up the river. by Ross Perot
Falling in love is easy but staying in love is something special.
As long as you going to be thinking anyway,think big. by Donald trump
You cant help getting older but you dont have to look old.
A man needs self-acceptace or he can't live with himself. He needs self- criticism or others cant live with him. by James A pike
Many a man has fallen in love with a girl in a light so dim he would not have chosen a suit by it. by Maurice Chevalier
A foolish man tells a woman to stop talking, but a wise man tells her that her mouth is extremely beautiful when her lips are closed.!!!!! LOL

Monday, February 21, 2011

My Valentine This year

No more flowers,cake and celebration... LOL :(

We were at the Church of St Teresa on valentine day. Truth to told Aunty PAT passed away on 13th February 2011.
Aunty PAT:May You Rest in Peace & God will bless You in heaven
We will definitely miss you ...

My deepest condolences to Jenny And Michelle.

About Me

A stayhome Mum with 2 lovely girls. I like to eat,listening music and watch HK dramas... I like to play with flour, sugar, egg and butter.

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Durian Strudel Ritz Apple 833 Bukit Timah road #01-10 Royal Ville Full loaf-$26.30 Half loaf-$13.50 猫山王雪糕 Savory Ice 450 lor 6 #01-15 Toa Payoh Entertainment Centre (2.90/scoop) BLIC Ice Cream Cafe Blk 802 Tampines Ave 4 #01-23 ($5.20/scoop) Durianmisu Goodwood Park Hotel $4.80 per minicup $8.80 per cup Durian Eclair @5.50 榴梿面包 Oishii Bakery 154 West Coast Rd West Coast Plaza #B1-24/25 @ $1.80 榴梿土司 Tong Shui Cafe 54 Zion Rd @$5.88 Durian Cake Jane Cake Station 265 Jalan Kayu 8" -$38 10"-$58 12x12-$98

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